Updated: Mar 17
What do woman want and how does insecurity tie in? Us woman think of things we want everyday all day. Men have no clue - they say, us, woman are confusing and complicated. lol I started asking questions, taking polls, talking to experts, deep conversations with my good friend, videographer Jonas Black, and my co-host Lee Lee. Good Lord, I even went around talking to ppl in the street (during the coronavirus scare) not realizing, at the time, this probably isn't a good idea. lol
SO, WHAT DO WOMEN WANT? Not that common answer like love, sex, money...because a man can want that too. Its woman's month, lets focus on the women! We want the right to want what we want when we want it (within compromise). We want equal pay if we have equal skill. We want equal education, voting rights, and no pain during sex/giving birth/menstrual cramps. The entire reproductive system forces the woman to surrender their body and body fluids to produce more humans. Woman are supernatural.(Being supernatural shouldn't be painful lol just my opinion lol) And, we are supernatural - why are some women so insecure? I know, for a fact, no woman WANTS to be insecure.
WOMEN WANT SECURITY!!!
Insecurity is the one vibe, that men have too, that should be dissected. My objective, focus on things that women want that men can't relate to. But, the foundation of a person's security determines how they think, how they move, what they will or will not say ...if you're unworried, relaxed, and confident the decisions you make differ from a person otherwise. The "wants" very... When I spoke to Jonas Black he made a powerful statement when I asked his opinion.
"...There are women still in the same hood, same home, same job and they don't WANT more. They are content with being where they are. And thats cool. Then I know some women that want different opportunities and thats ok too. there are different levels of wants Nadia."
If feeling secure determines a major factor in choices and desires, we should ask ourselves, are insecure woman easily controlled or are insecure woman too controlling? Women set the tone when getting what they want...or do they?
It was interesting to talk to different people around Seattle, Wa. Not to put labels on anyone, but I asked an older Jamaican women the same question and she said, "Controlling". I asked two very young white girls and they said, "easily controlled". I asked an overweight white women and she said she's been on both sides of the spectrum. I talked to a middle aged mixed couple and they said, "Its based off of what people want to manifest..."
Talking to Dr. Chalon Ervin, "I think It depends on the particular insecurity. It's not necessarily hormonal. Insecurities or having security is environmental, experiential or based on social standards. It basically stems from a feeling of inadequacy. People exhibit different behavior when they are insecure."
I just want to say, a lot of woman are not insecure. Some woman do not abuse their power being too controlling and some woman cannot be easily influenced because of their past experiences. There are women who know exactly what they want with no question and know how to get it. There are things we want out of our control. However, if the idea popped up into your head, you have the freedom to figure it out. Women are supernatural so there is no need to feel out of control or inadequate. Acceptance gives us the luxury to obtain the life we want. If one accepts where they are, they can stay or evolve with confidence - make solid, smart, aligned decisions so you feel in control. As woman, We set the tone!
GO GET WHAT YOU WANT TODAY!!!
WHATEVER THAT IS!!!
HAPPY NATIONAL WOMAN'S MONTH!
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